It may have been an innocuous banter: I didn't wish an elder(haha though not very old) XNKL verbally. On my part, an sms seems to suffice especially since I didn't mass send that message nor did I feel the festive season (wait for my next post on that..)
Yes, sometimes we think that 'Hey! I sent you the message' meaning we didn't forget.. & thus, we will never know what a call would have meant to the other party. We unwittingly substitute casual(as understood by someone else) for seriousness(that we actually intended it)
Just using an example to generalise or rather to emphasise because assimilation is a tool for those who can't hit the bullseye straight with an arrow but choose to go in a round-a-bout way(which may mean never to reach that red dot).
As I have blogged before (the scene about the mother and daughter on the bus), different interpretation, different understanding; different people, different standards.
A simple word like "okay" can have so many different meanings while being expressed and read.
'Are you ok?' 'Ya, ok.' (continued in the heart: 'ya right!')
"Okay" is a vague word. Get RID of it.. .. okay sure ;)
it's okay if you can't see the road ahead, just make sure God is still in sight!!
In His time, in His time,
He makes all things beautful in His time.
Lord, please show me every day,
As You're teaching me Your way,
That You do just what You say, in Your time.
In Your time, in Your time,
You make all things beautiful in Your time.
Lord, my life to You I bring.
May each song I have to sing
Be to You a lovely thing, in Your time.
Words and Music by Diane Ball
Th3 b@bY iN mI
vette
15 Sept 88
child of God
likes: zzz
dislikes: waa waa
