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Sunday, October 01, 2006

Once in a while, a word from someone or scenes from somewhere give you a deja vu feeling, triggering some thoughts in your mind. Some made you ponder deeply, while others made you realize.

Today, the testimonies during family magic struck a chord.
"You weren't there when I needed you the most, so don't come & tell me what to do now!!"

How easy it is to justify one's action just because someone else don't quite measure to your expectations. You felt let down and allowed yourself to 'fabricate' evidences to convince yourself subconsciously. In the end, you will think what you thought is true. It may or may not be. Whatever it is, think again.

The only reason why you have such high expectations of people is because you expect alot from them. To put it simpler, they are people dear to you. (I mean, do you expect much from your fair-weather friends or your far away distant relatives.) That's why we have to be realy cautious about justifying our reactions especially when these actions are unjust to the person on the receiving end. Or else, you may just regret it.

Why have I been so naive in doing all these things for you?? Am I been too nice?? ..maybe I should distance myself.

What you may truly regret is saying the above. When the person leaves you, will you bother how he or she din't meet your needs?? No. What you will actually remember is how much you love them from the start & how dear they are to you that you will lament having entertained the negative thoughts & letting them turn physical.

Does God look at us (sinning and going against Him) & bemoan:" Why did I even send my beloved Son down to save you all??"

He doesn't & He will never. He loves and cares for us greatly that's why He send His Son down in the first place. He know this perfectly that's why He's faithful to us.

I'm sure all if not most of us have been there, done there & have our own regrets. However, if we were to be able to see things in a different light, we will be able to rid of much more unhappiness in our lives, don't you think so??

I realised that happiness and joy are not one-sided nor overnight so don't let negative thoughts overshadowed. Think of the love behind it & you overlook whatever after it.

growing up @t
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